Back again :)

It's been a few months since I blogged..........

So, we had a nice Christmas and New Years with our neighbors.  I had to push myself to truly enjoy the holidays since Cesar is still not working, but I pushed myself and we had a great time with our friends the Guererros :)

Justin got fired from his job on 1/7/11, they needed to let go of one person due to the aftercare enrollment, and he was the last one hired, so we all know what that means.  I  was so nervous - don't need another person out of a job at our house.  But, he was lucky enough to find another aftercare counselor job a week later - yay

Brandon's grades are still terrible, and on top of that a week ago he got into a fight in school.  A bunch of kids were throwing a shoe around that they took from one kid and someone threw it and it hit Brandon on the head, he got angry and punched the kid in the head.........so, guess who got suspended for 6 days??? You, guessed it -Brandon.  Well I actually don't blame him for getting upset, I would be upset too if someone hit me in the head with a shoe.  But, he needs to learn to use his words and not his hands.

So, about two weeks ago the boys wanted to go visit some friends with Monica and Melissa.  They come home around 1:00 AM.  I hear screaming and think I'm dreaming.  But, the shouting continued, I jump out of bed because it sounds like a rumble in the jungle downstairs. Yell at Cesar to get up, because I hear furniture being pushed..........well, let me tell you what happened.  Brandon claims he was on the phone with a girl that he really likes and that Justin kept turning the music up, so he got mad and turned it down.  Justin claims Brandon was talking to loud so he turn up the music so he didn't have to hear his stupid conversation.  This is when all hell broke lose while he's driving.  Thank god they made it home o.k. and didn't get into a real fight until they got home and Cesar had to get in between them to break it up.  Now, they are not allowed to go anywhere together for a while, or at least until they become men. 

Taylor is doing very well in middle school.  But, for the first time in his life he got a C, it was in Advance Math, so I'm not too upset, but told him that's the last C he's getting.  Right now he's back to A's and B's :)  Last Friday, 2/4/11 he kept coming to my office saying his stomach was hurting.  I thought he was just had to use the bathroom and kept telling him to go sit in the toilet.  Turns out my poor baby was having appendicitis.  After 8 long hours in the ER he was transferred to Joe Demaggio's children's hospital in Hollywood, he was scheduled for surgery at 8:00 AM to next morning.  He was so brave, he didn't even cry when they took him in for surgery.  He was so happy that his titi Sessy, her boyfriend Gustavo, cousins Chasettie, Joshua and his favorite cousin Cristian came to the hospital to visit, and bought him lots of treats and balloons.  He got alot of phone calls from family and friends, he was really happy so many people wanted to know how he was doing.  Saturday afternoon, we were laying down watching TV, and guess who walks in with food and balloons... my dear friend Lucy, her mother and daughters, They are truly amazing.  These are the moments in life that you know who your true friends are.  The next day, she send over dinner for all of us.  Lucy and her family are more like family than friends and neighbors.   I am truly blessed to have found such caring people.   Everything went well, thank god, and he's back in school already.

I get a call from the boys today at different times asking if they can go to cousin's Ray's party (my cousin Diana's son).  Well she lives in Jupiter which is like one hour away.  I guess they think I forgot that they couldn't be in the car for 10 minutes without fighting and I'm suppose to let them go to Jupiter one hour away.......hello, I don't think so.  So now today, I am the worst mother in the planet. 

My sister Jannys called me the beginning of the week to tell me she is now a diabetic :(  I'm so sad for her, because like me she truly loves to eat, not sweets or snacks but FOOD!!  I hope they find a cure for diabetes soon  -- My sister Kathy has decided to move to Nagua, Dominican Republic to teach English for one year.  I'm excited for her and for her new adventures :)

I'm hoping that this year bring us better luck and that Cesar finds a job real soon.

Life with teenagers is giving me heartburn ----

Halloween weekend

Taylor - the Zombie Baseball Player

My two sweeties - Isaac and Angely

Do you think they are scared???

Had a nice week and on  Friday, I had plans with my friend Marie and her kids to go to the Miami Haunted House.  As we are leaving Brandon tells me he doesn't want to go to no stupid haunted house. I tell him it's family time and you can stay home, but don't plan on going out with your friends later.  So, ofcourse this infuriated him, he starts complaining, whinning, and if it's family time why is papi staying (I laughed in my head) but I didn't care he was spending time with me whether he liked it or not.  So, as we are driving he starts telling me that I'm kidnapping him, taking him somewhere without with consent.  I said Brandon you can get out of the car right now or shut up and let me drive.  I turn on the radio and he starts singing, not just singing shouting.........annoying me --- arrgghhh I wanted to kill him.  Then a rap song came on and starts shaking his head forward, backward acting like he is from the hood and..... BANG, he hit his head on the dash board, it was hysterical I almost lost control of the car, and Justin and Taylor almost peed in their pants.....Brandon didn't think this was funny, but he shut up after that - lol

The haunted house was pretty amazing.......Now my boys all think our house is haunted.  Guess who actually had a good time, BRANDON!!  Taylor on the other hand got so scared I had to cover his eyes half way thru, I felt so bad for him.  When we are both snuggled in my bed at night together (yes my bed - he's still my baby), he says mami I know they were not real but I was really scared.  I told him I would never let anything happen to him that I would take a bullet for him.  He tells me I would take a bullet for you too mami.  I told him don't you ever say that I already live my life you need to live yours.  He said we are family and that's what family does -- I had a tear in my eye, my Taylor loves me.  Now, do you think Brandon would of told me the same thing -- NO he would say, I'll take a bullet for my papi.

On Sunday, we had a Halloween BBQ with my sister Sessy and her kids and my friends and neighbors.  It was a hit - everyone had a great time. My little niece (neighbor Angely) told me I am the bestest titi ever, she is so cute.   Today, is Monday and I'm exhausted, but happy.

Life in Florida allows me to have a BBQ in October :)

Mother of all headaches

Well this week has been hectic - I know what else is new....................

I got a nice call from my sisters Roslyn and Kathy from NC - apparently Roslyn found a letter I wrote to her over 20 years ago :)  -- how cute is that she saves everything - me I throw everything away (just for a minute I want to be like her and save everything), but ofcourse that feeling went away as soon as it came.  If only I like to saved things.  We couldn't stop laughing of the thought of Jannys my other sister coming home to their new found treasure (my letter) and complaining WHERE'S MY LETTER - I swear she thinks she's my only sister and that I need to love her and only her.  Sorry sis, I have love for all my sisters (yes Charo too)!!!!!

Well this week is the end of the first quarter for the kids and again - it looks like Taylor will be making honor roll,  (he has - 3 A's, 2 B's and a B+) - yay for Taylor, I'm so proud of him.  I thought he was going to struggle his first quarter in middle school, but he didn't - he proved to his dad that he can play 2 sports and do well in school.  Today is his last soccer game of the season for school, and right after that we have to run to a baseball game.  Next week he will be trying out for the school's basketball team.  I was elected to be the school's Athletic Booster Club secretary (like I don't have enough to do).....but if Taylor is going to keep tyring out for everything, I might as well help out.

Now about Brandon, my favorite middle child.  We switched him to charter, this was his choice.........so he left Flanagan where he had 4 classes to go to Charter that has 6 classes.  And what do you think happened, as of today his grades are terrible.  No A's or B's, 1 C, I think 1 D and 4 yes 4 F's (I think he believes F is for fantastic)!!!!!! Chest pains, I'm feeling my chest tightening as I'm writing this -- god give me strength I still have Taylor to raise since (Brandon thinks he doesn't need parents anymore - he knows all he needs to know to survive in this cruel world).  OK - took a few short breath, I think I'm going to be O.K. no need to call the paramedics.  Oh we think he went for a joy ride again, because Monday morning the car keys were missing.  Guess who had them.........YES, Brandon and ofcourse he claims he did no such thing....going for a joy ride that is. 

On Tuesday he decided to spend time with our beloved Maximus (70 pound doberman).  I look out the window to the backyard and there is Brandon with all 70 something pounds of Maximus on top of him like a baby, rubbing his stomach.  I couldn't help but stare at him, so loving with his Maximus and then in an instant he can turn on me and claim I'm the most annoying, embarrasing, corny, lazy (yes he calls me lazy) mother in the world, and I wonder what happend to my adorable little boy who thought the world of his mother (actually he never thought that - I'm just wishing) he thought the world of his father, still does - lol.  And when did he become this obnoxious, rude, selfish, lazy, messy teenager. 

I'm very tired today, was woken up last night to the smell of fried eggrolls, no cookies this time.  I think he finally went to bed around 3:00 AM.  Sleep I'm in need of sleep,  I think the reason I can't sleep it's because I'm expecting the cops to show up with Brandon in tow - telling me they caught him driving with no license and no permit......aarrgghh

So Cesar and Brandon get into a playful argument because Brandon keeps wasting Cesar's cologne's - even when he buys him one - he wants to wear his dad's.  Brandon picked Cesar up like a rag doll and slammed him on the bed and told him (go to bed old man) -- We all had to crack-up, it was a hysterical scene.  Cesar says he doesn't have a favorite son.......yeah right!

Now what can I write about Justin this week.  He's not trying to kill me, his grades are good.  Oh since Cesar and I called him cheap he's been buying me the only cookies I like, Pepperidge Farm, short bread and renting movies for me at the $1.00 at the blockbuster stand in Publix.  And asking his dad if wants anything - lol - don't you just love reverse psychology :)

Cesar went on a few interviews this week, I pray that something will come up soon, before his un-employment runs out.


Life with Taylor makes me proud to be his mama :)

Monday updates

So last week was hectic like anyother week.  Taylor had 2 soccer games and 4 baseball games.  Justin went to Orlando, but he had a game on Sunday.  Brandon's extra curricular activity this week is to drive me crazy.

Cesar got a job for 2 days helping my co-worker with some gardening.  Atleast he'll be out of the house and not stressing out about money and bordem.

My cousin Cindy texted me that she was at the doctor's office because she hurt her foot.  Turns out she broke her toe.  While she's waiting I tell her she's my favorite cousin, and what do you think that crazy girl does--- she tell's Kelvin her brother.  Ofcourse I backed it up and said he's my favorite male cousin........I wanted to kill her.  She's lucky I'm all the way in Florida or I would have broken her other toe - lol.

I woke up Saturday feeling great.  So I decided to go for a walk, I asked Taylor to join me but he said his stomach was hurting, so I took Maximus.  It was a beautiful breezy, sunny morning.  Everything was going great until I was almost at the gate to my community and I see Cesar's white car coming towards me.  Now I know Justin is in Orlando with his friends for Halloween Horror Night.  Cesar had gone to Debbie's house to help her do some gardening.  So who do you think was driving that car without a license or a permit.  YES - Brandon I guess he thought I left with Cesar and decided to go for a joy ride.  My heart almost came out of my chest.  I start screaming at him that if he has lost his mind, he just smiles and makes a u-turn.  He said I blow everything out of proportion, that he's not going to run anyone over and no cop will stop him, because he drives better than anyone in our house.  Now I live about 4 long blocks from the gate.  I tell you this son of mine is trying to kill me.

No sooner than I get home and Taylor is throwing up and going to the bathroom to do #3.  He wasn't getting anybetter, so I decided to take him to the Dr.  they were closed - took him to Urgent Care - waiting for 1 1/2 doctor tells me that he thinks it's his appendix and he also has an ear infection in the right ear.  They can't do anything so I need to go to ER.  I get to the ER they take him right away, they do an ultrasound.  Turns out his appendix is fine and he doesn't have an ear infection.  They give him and IV and 4 hours later we can go home.  (Never going to urgent care again)!!!

As we are leaving Taylor asked me for the time - I tell him it's 4:45 - he says if we hurry we can make it to my baseball game.  Ofcourse I took him home instead.

Sunday at 5:00 I asked Justin to help Taylor do an anti-bullying poster for extra credit, he thought he didn't need to do it because he has a B+ in that class (in my house you don't skip extra credit).  As we are working on the poster Brandon comes into my room and asked me to help with with a project.  OMG -- it was 7:00 PM and he had done nothing!  Justin came to the rescue again and helped him -- it was 6 pages long - they were done by 10:00 PM.

So again, I can't sleep because I fell asleep at 10:00 woke up at 12:30 to the smell of bake cookies -- this is what Brandon does in the middle of the night -- then at 1:30 he is on the phone with a friend an apparently he or she must of told him a funny joke because he was cracking up for 10 minutes -- I had to yell --- SHUT UP and go to bed!!!!  Then I am awaken at 4:00 AM along with Cesar and Justin to Brandon screamming (the screams sounded like someone was killing him) it was horrible.  Apparently he must of had a terrible nightmare but went right back to sleep -- me not so lucky.

Then I had a terrible nightmare that demons were killing people and I was trying to hide Taylor in my neighbors closet.  (These neighbors sacrafice animals)  - I think they are the demons - yikes.

Life with Brandon keeps me awake all night

Cute things a little boy says........

Conversations with Taylor:

5/08 (8 years)

Taylor made the Bulldogs 9 and under baseball travel team.  On the way to the practice I tell Taylor:

Make sure you give 150 percent in the practice, if the coaches see that you are not hustling, they'll think you are not trying and they can replace you.  Remember everyone is replaceable.

Taylor - That's not true, I can think of 5 people who are not replaceable.
Me: - who (thinking he will say, mom, dad his brothers and sister
Taylor: Jesus, Mary, Joseph, Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny :)

1/25/09
Taylor forgot to study for a test and I was upset with him

Before he went to bed he kissed me and said - sorry that I disappointed you mommy, tomorrow the old Taylor will be back and he will not dissapoint you :)

1/26/09
On the way home from school:

Taylor - Mommy when you die do you want to come back as a human or an animal
Me - human
Taylor - I want to come back as a German Sheppard or a Cheetah
Me - Well Taylor I want to come back as a human because humans live longer.  Think about it if you come back as a dog you'll be dead in 13 - 14 years, I don't know how long the cheetah's live
Taylor - It doesn't matter to me, I still wnat to come back as an animal,  I already experienced being a human, and I wnat to experience new things.  Don't you want to experience new things mommy.
Me - Well Taylor if you put it that way, then maybe I'll want to come back as an animal

2/8/10
Taylor - Mommy my friend told me that he was miserable this weekend because he was grounded.  I told him....that is not being miserable that is called having a bad day.  Being miserable is like when you see those kids on TV with no food, water or a home.
Me - wow Taylor that is really good, I'm so proud of you
Taylor - He doesn't have his priorities straight.

Life with Taylor is a lesson to be learned.

Monday, Monday, I wish it was Sunday

So I had a crazy week...........

Soccer practice Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday.  Baseball practice Wednesday after socce practice and on Friday.  Yikes I can barefly breath....and I'm not even practicing I'm just driving....I'm getting old.

So on Wednesday, I had a meeting with Brandon's teachers - because right now his grades are horrible, whatever you can imagine, that's what they are.  The meeting went great and I hopefull that his grades will improve..........so when we are leaving the school he tells me did you see the rump on Ms. so and so.  I would like to tap that -----, my boy is crazy.  Ofcourse I tell him you shouldn't be taking like that about school staff, so he tells me he's only kidding. 

Taylor had a Soccer game on Monday and Wednesday.  His team lost both games.  They are doing terrible, but I don't say anything to Taylor as to not discourage him.

On Saturday my friend Marie and my neighbor and I had a garage sale.  I made $78 not bad for a first timmer.  Now, I'm hook and told the boys to clean out their closets -- mama needs to make more money, so another garage sale is on the way.  At 1:00 Cesar took Taylor and Justin for batting practice, Brandon didn't go because remember he's taking a break from baseball (he's killing me).  My Yankees won so it was a great weekend. 

Sunday Taylor had a baseball game against the Cobras - they lost 2-1 it was a great game and my boy did awesome.  Justin had a game too and his team won, and he was 3-4.

Shadow our dog has a stomach virus again............so when I got up at 5:30 on Monday there was dog poop everywhere, it was discusting I almost threww up.  By Wednesday I thougth he was better so I let him back in the house (he's been in the garage for 2 days). Oh boy was I wrong, Cesar calls me at 10:00 pissed off because Shadow did poop all over the house again and he had to clean it up - thank god I was at work :)

With my winnings from saturday, I treated the family for some yummy chinese food.  Except I wanted to try a new place and everyone hated it :(


Life with three boys..........and a sick dog, keeps me busy.

Cesar/Gladys

I am 1 of 10 children........
I have 2 no 3 sisters in NC, 1 up and abandoned me 2 months ago (you know who you are) :(
1 sister and 1 brother in Boston
3 brothers in NY
1 sister lives here in Florida - she better not move

Cesar is one of 8
Where they are is not important - after all I'm the one writing this blog - lol

Well we left NY for a number of reasons.........

1 -  after 911 I hated taking the train.  I had to commute everyday to midtown, I was working for Parade Publications, I was there for almost 14 years.  Cesar was a cab driver.
2 -  I hate cold weather.........well that is after I turned 30, so that's what 12 years of hating cold weather.
3 - Cesar hates cold weather.....Florida reminds him of DR.
4 - The boys could play baseball all year round.
5 - NY is dirty/Florida is clean and beautiful

I still love you NY I will always love NY, but to visit.

So, we sold our house- packed up our kids and Shadow (our dog) - and drove to Florida.  We stop in Maryland and spent 1 night with Cesar's sister Juanita and stopped in NC and spent two days with my sisters Roslyn and Jannys :)  That was an adventure.  We had 4 kids, 1 dog and my niece Evelyn in the car. I can't tell you how many fights went on, how many times I lost my voice - how many times I peed in my pants from laughter, how many times I threatend Brandon that I was going to pull over and leave him at the side of the road.   (I think that's the reason my niece Evelyn doesn't have any kids) lol
At one point my niece tells me titi look back - and, there was Brandon he had stripped down to  is underware.  He said he was hot (everyone else was fine) he stay like that for 7 hours until we reached south Florida.

I'm working at Walter C. Young Middle School for 6 years now.

Cesar is currently unemployed - he lost his job on 6/2009 - but somehow we are still surviving - god is good

Life with an unemployed husband is giving me gray hair :(